“The life of inner peace, being harmonious and without stress, is the easiest type of existence.” Photo: Agnes Naze on WhatsApp Forgiveness, like good people would always preach, is mainly for ourselves. Sometimes when people hurt us, we're convinced that we'll never be able to forgive and forget it because of how badly it hurt us. Has anybody ever done something to you that was so bad you felt the hurt moving from your chest to your mouth? Sometimes you're too numb to breath, your chest too stiff to beat without causing physical pain, and sometimes, your eyes too painful to contain tears. I've been hurt badly on ‘too many for my own good’ occasions, but I've hurt people too; intentionally and otherwise. I knew that saying something a certain way would inflict emotional pain, but I said it. I've known that refusing to say something would leave room for doubt and inferiority, but I didn't say it. I've liked people and when things were going s...